There’s a great article in today’s Times (”Don’t Point That Menu at My Child, Please“) about one of my biggest pet peeves: kids’ menus at restaurants. As a (slightly obsessive) parent trying to instill in my kids a love for good food — real food — kids’ menus make my job harder. Much harder.
Marion Nestle, who gives a separate quote in the article, is unequivocal about what kids should be eating (this via her great book, What to Eat):
Children are supposed to eat the same foods their parents eat. Dietary recommendations…apply to everyone over the age of two. Once children are past infancy and can chew and swallow foods without choking, they should be eating the same healthy foods that everyone else in the family is eating…
She also notes that the diets of up to 80% of today’s young children are considered “poor” or “in need of improvement.” It’s not surprising. What do we think of as “kid” foods? Mac and cheese. Chicken fingers. Grilled cheese. French fries. Cheeseburgers. Fish sticks. Almost all heavily-processed, with extremely limited nutritional value. If eaten only occasionally, maybe it wouldn’t matter. However, with 30% of American meals eaten outside the home, these items can form a huge percentage of a child’s diet. (and, thanks to “advances” like Kid Cusine dinners, more of this stuff is being consumed in the home).
I agree with the author of the Times article, when she says that while the children’s menu has depressing nutritional implications, she’s even “more rankled by its palate-deadening potential.”
Now let there be no doubt: my problem with kids’ menus is my own weakness. I hate to argue with my kids about food…especially when we’re dining out. I know. I know. It’s my job. I’m sorry. I just don’t want to argue. I don’t feel like that’s a healthy way to instill good food values, either. So, when the waitress hands my kid a colorful menu that features french fries, chicken nuggets, and more fries, my normal response is to grimmace, while silently fuming.
And, of course, to avoid that restaurant whenever I can.
Think you’re okay because you don’t visit the Golden Arches? Alas. Kids’ menus in sit-down restaurants may be no better than in fast-food joints.
I don’t want to be preachy about what you should do, so I’ll close with a little more Nestle:
It is perfectly possible to teach kids to like adult food. I’ve seen it done. It just takes some persistent action by adults who care about kids’ health and want to make a difference. The best way I can think of for you to get kids interested in real food — the fruit, vegetable, meat, and dairy foods that you buy along the peripheral aisles of supermarkets — is to teach them how to cook such foods. Even better, teach them how to grow vegetables; radishes growing in a pot on a windowsill can change a child’s relationship with food forever, and much for the better.
Hear! Hear!





